They say whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I'm not so sure. I think it's more like what ever doesn't kill you in an instant might just be killing you slowly over a long period of time.
Of course extreme stress isn't supposed to continue on relentlessly for years.
There is supposed to be a break between contractions.
And if not ... they recommend sleep, exercise, meditation, good nutrition, asking for and accepting help, simplifying as much as possible -- the things we are supposed to be doing anyway.
I'm doing as many of these things as I can. I'm not sure they'll save me, though. I learned once that when you quit smoking your